Be an Expert Lover – Learn the Secrets of the Clitoris Orgasm
You are about to learn the secrets of the clitoris orgasms?
Many men secretly see women as mysterious, complex and unpredictable creatures. With the benefit of my experience and being a girl who loves sex I will take you into that glorious hidden world, which will increase your chances of becoming a mind-blowing, unforgettable lover!
For both men and women, sex is more than a purely physical thing. Your fantasies can be one of the most exciting ways to spice up a relationship! Moreover, it may surprise you to know that women can sometimes achieve spontaneous orgasm purely through fantasizing or, as has happened to me, through sexy dreams. One way or another, women’s conscious and unconscious thoughts play a very big role in their sexual responses.
Most women love to experience masculine strength – they may even fantasize about being held down by a strong man – but in reality it can be quite scary being naked and vulnerable with someone bigger and stronger than yourself. There is a world of difference between a game and the real thing. Some women fantasize about being forced to have sex – but that does not mean they really want it to happen! So be sensitive and careful, and – if your partner wishes – find ways to play out fantasies safely.
Can women get aroused as quickly as men? Women do take longer to arouse than men. If if you are an inexperienced lover, then it likely that you will need to take things more slowly than you would like.
Girls tend to have erogenous (sexually excitable!) zones all over their bodies, not just around the sex organs, as is predominantly the case with men. The breasts are usually very sensitive and erotic (and most men can’t wait to touch them!). Girls love being touched in other mega888 apk places, for instance, the neck, the tummy, the lower back, the inner thighs. Each woman will have her special sensitive places: getting to know these as you explore her body is one of the joys of a new relationship – and a good way to revive an old one too! Touch is very important to women, and by stroking her gently in her favorite places, you connect to her emotions, which in turn heighten her sexual arousal.
Even if you are desperately randy, do not insist on penetrative sex when your partner is obviously not ready. Use stroking and cuddles to let her know you care and make her feel wanted for herself, not just as a sex object. It may also happen that simply touching and cuddling, helps her relax and feel gently sensual – which will lead to sexual activity! Physically, your partner will be quicker to arouse – her vagina will lubricate more quickly, her clitoris will become more erect than usual, her nipples especially sensitive. Kiss, lick and nibble her gently and slowly all down her body: mouth, neck, breasts, and tummy. By the time you reach her clitoris and the lips of her vagina, you will probably be amazed at her juicy receptiveness!
Some men, in my experience, have a selfish approach to sex. They are easily arousal through stimulation of the penis. Women’s bodies, however, require a less direct approach and offer many exciting but less obvious sensitive zones. I have actually met men who think that fondling my nipples with one hand and exploring my clitoris and vulva with the other is going to turn me on! Well, it might – if the setting was right, if I was crazy about the guy, and if lots of other more gentle exploration had taken place beforehand. If he had kissed me slowly and gently on my lips and neck, stroked my hair, softly caressed my body all over, saving the ‘obvious’ places till last… now just thinking about that is starting to turn me on!